Wednesday, September 1, 2021 at 12:00 a.m.
Neufeld, Vern
VERNON CLARENCE NEUFELD, of Lethbridge, AB, beloved husband of Ruth Neufeld, passed peacefully into the arms of his Lord and Saviour in St. Michael's Health Centre - Palliative Care Unit on August 21, 2021 at the age of 87 years.
VERNON CLARENCE NEUFELD, of Lethbridge, AB, beloved husband of Ruth Neufeld, passed peacefully into the arms of his Lord and Saviour in St. Michael's Health Centre - Palliative Care Unit on August 21, 2021 at the age of 87 years.
Vern was born September 1, 1933 at home on the family farm near Didsbury, AB. He attended a country school in the Davenport School District in the Didsbury area. Vern loved machinery and wheels and worked road construction before he left home in 1955 to attend Canadian Mennonite Bible College in Winnipeg, MB. At the College Christmas Banquet, he met our Mom, Anne (Peters) Neufeld. They were married on August 12, 1956 in Winkler, MB. Vern graduated with a music degree in 1959 and they moved to Altona, MB, where he taught at Elim Bible School for two years and began his choir-conducting career. During this time, their two daughters, Cheryl & Sylvia, were born. In 1962, Vern accepted a position at the Swift Current Bible Institute to teach music and conduct choirs. During the 1968-69 school year, the family lived in North Newton, KS, while Vern completed his Bachelor of Music degree at Bethel College. In 1975, the family moved from Swift Current, SK, to Coaldale, AB, where Vern took a position as Director of Music and Youth at the Coaldale Mennonite Church. Vern's trucking career started in 1986 with CJD Trucking. He drove 24 years until he was 77, when he 'semi-retired' and hired a driver for his truck, which he owned until his passing. Our Mom, Anne, passed away from cancer in 2004 after 47 years of marriage. God brought Ruth (our Bonus Mom) into Vern's life and they were married September 10, 2005. We, as a family, have cherished these past 16 years together.
Vern is survived by his wife, Ruth; daughters Cheryl O'Donnell and Sylvia (Bill) Klassen; grandchildren Cody (Bailey) O'Donnell, Jeff (Patricia) O'Donnell, Dustin (Taya) O'Donnell, Lacey O'Donnell, Josh (Crystal) Klassen, Christy Martens, Amy (Conrad) Martens and Alyssa (Nathan) Pahl and 23 great-grandchildren; brother Elmer (Erna) Neufeld, sister-in-law Sarah Neufeld, sister Lydia (Aaron) Derksen ; brother-in-law John Unrau; brother-in-law Paul (Elizabeth) Peters, sisters-in-law Susan (Abe) Wiebe and Hilda (Henry) Schulz; and numerous extended family members and friends.
Vern was predeceased by his parents Cornelius G. & Agatha Neufeld, his first wife Anne Neufeld, son-in-law Jim O'Donnell, infant granddaughter Darby Lee O'Donnell, brother Harvey Neufeld and sister Ruth Lowen and her husband George.
Vern spent his life serving and praising God in song, by volunteering, and by building relationships with family, friends & complete strangers, who, as Dad would say, "they were just friends he hadn't met yet". Vern spent many years volunteering with MCC, an organization that helps those less fortunate locally & around the world.
Vern will be remembered as the special man that he was to his family and so many others - loving, caring, kind, helpful, generous, and gracious. His love of Jesus, music and wheels is the legacy he leaves to those of us still here.
We invite you to the celebration of Vern's life on what would have been his 88th birthday at the COALDALE MB CHURCH, 2114 - 18 Street, Coaldale, AB, on Wed, Sept 1, 2021 at 1:30 PM. Following the service, Vern will be laid to rest in the Coaldale Mennonite Cemetery.
Both the Celebration of Life and Graveside will be livestreamed and may be accessed via Vern's obituary on the Cornerstone website. The livestream will begin at 1:00 P.M. with a pictorial tribute.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to MCC Alberta, 2946-32 Street NE, Calgary, AB T1Y 6J7, at the funeral service or on-line at mcccanada.ca.
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Condolences to Cheryl and Sylvia and families as this happened a while ago I see. I did watch the video of the service. Last time I saw Uncle Vern he stopped at our farm to visit as he was driving truck.
Our deepest sympathies to Ruth & family in the recent loss of their beloved husband, father, grand father & dearest friend. May the prayers of many help supply you with support, love & encouragement. We will always remember Vern, & his kindness & warm smile.
Ruth and family, Elvina and I express our heartfelt condolences to you as you mourn the passing of Vernon. May the Lord give you comfort and grace during this time of bereavement. We trust that good memories will strengthen you in the days to come. With our prayers, Vern's cousin, Menno & Elvina Hamm
Sending our condolences on the passing of your dad. It sounds like he was a phenomenal man. Got to watch some of the funeral with Cherie here in Ontario.
I will miss seeing Vern at MCC and MC Alberta events. Thank you for streaming the service, I was blessed to be able to see and hear it. Thinking of you all, especially Ruth.
We appreciate Vern and Ruth as friends and our prayers are with you.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Ruth. I will remember Vern fondly. Please give my condolences to his children and grandchildren.
What a beautiful ceremony. Wonderful memories. Will miss him
My condolence's to you and the family as you celebrate Vern's life
Text... Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Ps. 116: 15.
Dear Ruth, Sending you love and prayers for you and your family. Elvina & Bob Parker
You have all been in our prayers and hearts. We know that you will miss your father very much! Who is ever ready to lose a parent? Grace and peace!
Dear Cheryl and Families, Our Thoughts and Sympathy to you all.
Our Deepest condolences Ruth, you are in our thoughts.
Ruth, Cheryl, Sylvia and Families... as sad as his loss will be felt, he is now free of pain and is singing and conducting with the Angels. I always enjoyed seeing Uncle Vern. He had such a big, happy, and sincere laugh, he could cheer up anyone! The Heavenly Choir has never sounded so good! Thinking of you all.
Sylvia & Bill our sencere heart felt sorrow
Ruth and family, Thinking of you and wishing you many wonderful memories to comfort you at this time. A life well lived.
Our deepest condolences to all of you on the passing of Vern. Vern and Anne were wonderful neighbours always extending out to us to make our days joyful. They will both be missed and loved very much.
My condolences to Cheryl and family
I am sorry for the earthly loss of Vern, but will rejoice when we meet again. Can not wait to hear him sing again
Dear Sylvia, Cheryl and Families, We are so sorry to hear about your dear father's recent passing. He was a really nice man and will truly by missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Vern was a wonderful man, I'm sorry for your loss.
Dear Ruth, Cheryl and family, What an honor it has been to have known such a special man. Vern was kind, sweet, non judgemental, helpful, gracious and truly wonderful. I will never forget him. Hugs to you all during this sad time. Irene xo
Ruth, We would like to send you our deepest condolences on the passing of Vern. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Allan Unrau and family