Bedster, Arlene

June 23, 1970

June 23, 2025

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June 23, 1970 - June 23, 2025 With great sadness, we announce the passing of ARLENE BEDSTER, beloved daughter of Art and Carol Ann Bedster.

She is survived by her sister Michelle, her brother Mike, multiple aunts, uncles, and cousins. This includes Tom Shiels, Brenda (Warren) Funk and family, Cindy Dwyer and family, Bob Clark and family, Gary (Susie) Trodden and family, Robert (Connie) Trodden, Roy Trodden, Levon (Sylvia) Kletke and family, as well as Arlene’s many treasured friends and cherished friends of the family.

Arlene was hard working, conscientious, intelligent, loyal (making countless life-long friendships), compassionate, spiritual, generous, extremely talented, and creative; writing her own songs and playing guitar as well as other instruments.

Arlene was fun-loving, caring, honest, trustworthy, sentimental, sincere, and adventurous. She inherited a lot of common sense from her Dad and creativity from her Mom. Arlene touched everyone she met in a “special way” which only she could do.

Arlene dearly loved her dog Miss Meela and was lucky to have her for 16 years. For the last 9 years, she was very proud of her immaculate home and yard which were her pride and joy.

Arlene was always looking for new aspects of life, so she kept very busy taking educational courses. She had a wonderfully contagious outlook on life and enjoyed every moment. She worked many jobs over the years, especially loving her time at New West and enjoyed helping others as a life coach, which fit her like a glove. What a way to help people! A friend said Arlene was a “life coach for everyone Arlene spent time with.”

Arlene was a beautiful person inside and out and will be lovingly missed by all. She had the voice of an angel and God must have needed a new angel, so He chose Arlene.

There will be no funeral as per Arlene’s wishes.

The light in the world has lost some sparkle. Arlene was such a special friend to me, from the time I lived in Lethbridge for university and worked with New West Theatre, to the years after when I moved up north. She was the kind of friend that when you got together after years of being apart you just picked right back where you left off. So much laughter! So much joy and enthusiasm in everything she did. Arlene was always there for me, supporting me and cheering me on. My deepest condolences to her family, her friends, all of us who loved her dearly.

Kiann McNeill, July 1, 2025

My condolences go out to Arlene’s family and friends I know she will be missed but she will always be in your heart

Trevor Watmough, July 1, 2025

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that we are thinking about you all and sending you our prayers, hugs and deepest condolences. Arlene will be deeply missed and never forgotten 💕

Ross & Cory , June 30, 2025

Our sincere condolences to the Bedster family. She was such a kind and generous soul with a beautiful voice. That I will always remember! Our thoughts and prayers to all that knew Arlene! Love and Hugs!

Mel & Rosemarie Roth, June 29, 2025

Arlene was the most beautiful soul I have ever met in my life. Always a voice in my heart. You truly touched both Jesse and myself.

Marianne LeBel, June 29, 2025

We miss you , always and forever dear lady. Hugs and love The Carpenters

Stacey, Ashton, Skye, and Shyla, June 29, 2025

I am so sad to hear of Arlene' passing. I have always admired her and always loved our visits. She was so talented and lovely and a treasure to know. She was special to many and will be missed by all of us. RIP dear Arlene.

Joan Hardie Arndt, June 28, 2025

I am so saddened to hear of Arlene’s passing. I will cherish the memories I have of her. She truly was an angel here on earth & impacted the lives of all who had the privilege of being in her presence. Sending my deepest sympathies and condolences to her family and to all who knew and loved her. May you rest in peace Arlene. All my love ❤️ Marci

Marci S., June 28, 2025

I can not believe what I am reading. You were a little spit fire and I can’t believe that spark is gone. But it truly isn’t because now you’re up in the sky, sparkling

Tracy Gostola , June 28, 2025

So very sorry for your loss Art and Carol Ann. She was truly a beautiful soul. Our thoughts are with you and yours at this difficult time. Pat (Scotiabank) and Wayne

Pat and Wayne Barber, June 27, 2025

Arlene and I were Weekender Managers at the same time and she became like a little sister to me. It was 25 years ago this weekend that my husband Dennis passed away and I flew Arlene to Winnipeg to sing at his funeral. I had chosen a very special song. She searched out the music, recorded it and sang along with her own recording. It meant the world to me. Arlene was truly a very special person in my life and my thoughts and prayers are with her family.

Adele Deegan, June 27, 2025

I met Arlene many years ago, and although we were not close, I found her to be a shining light in this world. It will be a darker place without her. My condolences to her family and friends... many grieve with you.

Diane Halley , June 27, 2025

I met Arlene years ago through her performances with New West. She was always smiling, and a joy to see on and off stage. A genuine gal and oh so talented. Condolences to her family and all who knew her. ❤

Arlene Mantie, June 27, 2025

in the late 70's early 80's I used to walk to their house to visit; i was always rewarded with girl guide cookies and a glass of milk, and of course the warmest welcome. Arlene Bedster; that name has become newsworthy a couple times throughought my life. i always felt a sense of pride reading about her acomplishments. I saw her within the last couple months. i wanted to say "remember me?" i knew she didnt. now ill never get the chance to ask that question, to revisit our childhoods. goodbye arlene, i have nothing but happy memories of you. god bless you

ryan rockman, June 27, 2025

Still stunned by this sad event. Arlene, you will be missed by countless folks who loved you, your talent and your sparkling personality, on-stage and off. Rest in peace and sing with the angels 💕

Rosemarie Gattiker, June 27, 2025

I met Arlene through her work at Lethbridge College - Criminal Justice Program as she was a role player for student scenarios. She was great, so believable and so dedicated to the student learning. In fact she played her part very well. Arlene introduced me to Glaxal Cream, for post radiation treatment, what a relief! So understanding and compassionate. Glad I met Arlene!

Hugh Richards, June 27, 2025

Oh - we are so sadden to read of the passing of sweet Arlene. It has been years since we've seen each other but every time we play her CD and listen to her beautiful voice - we smile and think of all the fun and joy you brought into our lives. It will mean so much more now.

Judith & Dave Cassidy, June 27, 2025

My condolences to all her family. Arlene was sweet, inspirational and a loving lady to everyone she met.

Margaret Delude(Zmurchyk), June 27, 2025

She was an amazing young lady. She touched my life in many ways. I will miss her sweet singing voice, I always loved listening to her sing. I know she is having a wonderful deep conversations with my Dad (Garry Allison), they were very close, give him a hug for me Arlene ❤️. Thank you for touching my life with your sweet spirit. My prayers are with her family.

Kathy Allison Winfield, June 26, 2025

It's impossible to think of Coalhurst High school, in the mid-to-late 1980s, without picturing sweet Arlene's beautiful smile lighting up the hallways. Such a gentle, caring, loving soul. Forever our Anne of Green Gables.

Randy Jinkerson, June 26, 2025

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