Infant Loss & Stillbirth Support
You are not alone. We are here, when you are ready.
You Are Not Alone
The loss of a baby is one of the most profound and heartbreaking experiences a family can face. Whether your loss occurred during pregnancy, at birth, or shortly after, the grief is real, deeply personal, and often overwhelming.
At Cornerstone Funeral Home, we want you to know that you are not alone. We are here to walk alongside you with gentleness, compassion, and care — helping you navigate the days ahead at your own pace, in your own way.
There is no "right" way to grieve, and there is no timeline for healing. You do not need to have all the answers right now. We are here to support you, one step at a time.
Our Commitment to Your Family
For families experiencing the loss of a baby, Cornerstone Funeral Home provides our basic professional services for cremation or casket burial at no charge, as part of our commitment to compassionate care during an unimaginably difficult time.
A Gentle First Step
In the moments following the loss of a baby, it is completely normal to feel unsure of what to do next. Even the simplest decisions can feel heavy.
One of the first steps is bringing your baby into our care, and we will support you in whichever way feels most comfortable. We can come directly to the hospital or your home to gently take your baby into our care, or your family is welcome to bring your baby to us if this feels more comforting.
There is no urgency to have everything figured out. You may be wondering:
- • What needs to happen right now?
- • Do arrangements need to be made immediately?
- • Can we spend time with our baby?
- • Can our family be involved?
- • What type of service is possible for our baby?
Please know that you do not need to carry all of these decisions at once. We are here to guide you with care, patience, and support — at a pace that feels right for you.
Spending Time With Your Baby
For many families, time spent with their baby becomes one of the most meaningful parts of the grieving process.
You may wish to:
- • Hold and spend quiet time with your baby
- • Invite grandparents or close family members to meet your baby
- • Take photographs or create keepsakes
- • Create handprints or footprints
- • Save a blanket, clothing item, or other meaningful memento
There is no right or wrong choice — only what feels right for you and your family.
Honouring and Remembering Your Baby
Every baby deserves to be remembered.
Families may choose to honour their baby in ways that feel meaningful to them, such as:
- • Naming their baby
- • Holding a private family gathering or service
- • Planning a formal funeral or memorial service
- • Reading a poem, letter, or story
- • Playing meaningful music
- • Lighting candles or creating a tribute
- • Planting a tree or creating a lasting memorial
- • Choosing a special urn, casket, or keepsake
Whether your wishes are simple or more traditional, we will support you in creating something that feels right.
Burial or Cremation Options
Some families choose burial, others choose cremation, and some need time before making that decision.
We will gently walk you through your options, which may include:
- • Private graveside services
- • Small, intimate gatherings
- • Full funeral or memorial services
- • Cremation with keepsake urns or memorial items
- • Delaying a service until a later time
There is no pressure to decide immediately — we are here when you are ready.
Our Commitment to Your Family
We believe that every child, no matter how brief their time, deserves to be honoured with dignity and love.
Cornerstone Funeral Home does not charge for the basic professional services associated with cremation or casket burial when a family experiences the loss of an infant child.
It is our way of easing even a small part of the burden during an unimaginably difficult time, allowing you to focus on what matters most — being together and honouring your baby.
If you have questions about what is included or how we can help further, please reach out. We are here for you.
Support for Siblings, Grandparents & Family
The loss of a baby touches the entire family.
Siblings may feel confused or unsure how to express their emotions. Grandparents often carry both their own grief and the pain of watching their child suffer.
You may wish to:
- • Include siblings in saying goodbye in a gentle, age-appropriate way
- • Share simple, honest explanations with children
- • Invite family members to participate in the service or remembrance
- • Seek additional support through counselling or community resources
We can help guide you toward resources and ideas that may support your family during this time.
If Your Loss Occurred at the Hospital
We can work directly with hospital staff and caregivers to help guide you through next steps and ensure everything is handled with care and respect.
If Your Loss Occurred at Home or Unexpectedly
Please contact us at any time. We are available 24 hours a day and will respond with compassion, urgency, and support.
Resources & Ongoing Support
Grief does not end after the service, and support can be an important part of the healing journey.
We can help connect you with:
- • Local grief and bereavement support groups
- • Pregnancy and infant loss support organizations
- • Counselling services
- • Support within your church or faith organization
- • Books and resources for parents and siblings
- • Ideas for anniversaries and ongoing remembrance
A Final Word
There are no perfect words in a time like this.
Only this: your baby matters. Your grief matters. Your story matters.
Whether you need immediate assistance, have questions, or simply need someone to talk to, we are here for you — today, tomorrow, and in the days ahead.
We are available 24 hours a day
Reach Out — Any Time
Call us any hour of the day or night, or send a message and we will respond with compassion.